Love is a game, and we must always strive to be on par with each other. It is a competition, and we must always want to outdo our partner. This means that we must constantly be improving ourselves, and we must never let them see us as equals. In order to love, we must first of all be willing to learn and grow. We must always want to be the best version of ourselves, and we must never let our partner see us as equals. We must constantly strive to outdo them, and we must always want to be number one.